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Continue to ChatI suppose everyone continues to be interested in the quest for the self, but what you feel when you're older, I think, is that ... you really must make the self. It is absolutely useless to look for it, you won't find it, but it's possible in some sense to make it. I don't mean in the sense of making a mask, a Yeatsian mask. But you finally begin in some sense to make and choose the self you want. - Mary McCarthy from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/i-suppose-everyone-continues-to-be-interested-in-the-quest-for-the-self-but-what-you-feel-when-you-re-older-i